Value of a Butter Knife

by Kaelyn Pfenning

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful;

I know that full well.

Psalm 139:14 (NIV)

 

Have you ever tried to use a steak knife to spread cream cheese on a bagel?

One morning I opened the silverware drawer and found the slot where the butter knives are kept – empty.

I improvised.

First, I grabbed a steak knife. Slicing through the cream cheese, I tried to spread it on a nice, warm bagel. Clumping, the cream cheese did not spread evenly.

The point was too thin.

Next, I grabbed a fork, chopped into the cream cheese, and began to spread it, but the holes in the fork leaked cream cheese unevenly on the bagel.

The slits were too wide.

Finally, I grabbed a spoon, scooped out more cream cheese, and lavished it on the bagel. Working better than the other two, the cream cheese compacted where I set it.

The curve was too thick.

Although all the pieces were silverware, each one was created for a different purpose. The steak knife had a sharp edge to cut tough meat. The fork had slits and points to poke food. The spoon had a full curve to scoop up liquid.

Like the steak knife, the butter knife has a long, smooth, straight end not only to cut the cream cheese but also to spread it evenly.

Each utensil is a piece of silverware created for a different, specific purpose. Each believer is a member of God’s family created for a different, specific purpose.

Our everlasting Father made each individual with the exact combination of talents and skill and strength.  Will you choose to thank God for making you wonderful and unique?

Kaelyn Michelle Pfenning is currently employed as a staff writer for The People-Sentinel in Barnwell, SC. She graduated from North Greenville University in May, 2010 with a bachelor of arts degree in print media and had a number of articles published in the college paper The Skyliner and the Greer Citizen, a local newspaper. She is the third child in a family of six members total and attended one of the Write2Ignite conferences held at NGU.

2 Comments

  1. Name *Julie Magaha
    Mar 9, 2024

    So need prayer! After being out of a church for years, I’ve gone
    back, but, afraid to stay, out of fear of being hurt and rejected,
    as so many times, as before. Thank you, Julie

    • Pirate Preacher
      Apr 15, 2024

      A couple of thoughts from our staff. A moral rebuke often hurts. Jesus rebuked Peter and later went to great lengths to restore him. The Lord disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6). If we receive a rebuke based on God’s word and it is given with kindness, that may be an act of love. On the other hand, if the one offering the rebuke seems to relish in finding fault — if there is no love in the words — step away. The key to “church” is to be among believers who accept that they are saved by the grace of God and are willing to walk alongside others, disciple, and be discipled by those who trust God’s word. Such a group is a family where all want God’s best for each other. Jesus went to great lengths to avoid wounding others with his words. In general, he saved his harshest comments for those who acted as if they had no sins: and we all have sinned and fallen short of God’s standard (Romans 3:23).

      Lord, we ask that you will move in the hearts of those who are yours to welcome and reach out to Julie. Open doors where she is welcomed, loved, and encouraged by your word. Your goodness abounds. All who call upon you are saved (Romans 10:13). Save Julie into your arms and hold her close. Provide for her those who’s hearts share your compassion and love. Amen.

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